#3# ONE BEST BOOK IS EQUAL TO HUNDRED FRIENDS BUT ONE GOOD FRIEND IS EQUAL TO A LIBRARY” (Dr. A P J Abdul Kalam Azad)

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As usual that day also woke up early in the morning out of habit after all eternal actions my eyes started looking up for social networking updates(watsup, Facebook, LinkedIn….) lots of messages, posts and blogs everywhere.

Oh O! today is friendship day I got to know. Lots of messages from comrades Happy Friendship Day Happy Friendship Day. Verbal message, pictorial, forward message,voice message etc.etc. and I was felt blessed..Aha…so many friends…

Some seemed actual.

Some seemed factual.

Some seemed virtual.

Don’t mind who started this day. But started thinking do I have Friend/s? Wandering for the answer!

Yes I do ….a long list …but are they candid? Plz don’t mind on my silly thought. Oh really thoughtful…

What a Paradox we scare from those to whom we consider the friend.

Sometime seems the world has become lonely. Still searching for a candid person, as seen from the outside same from the inside for lifetime, really never known till time passes.(It is true when it comes from your soul).

Now days we don’t have a faith over anyone. Friendship is when you share everything means everything either confidential or secrets with each other.

But we scare to share all the intimate talks with friends thinking if they would telling tell or if would misuse them.

Anyway, Is any definition for true friendship? Flooded with thoughts….and got the characteristics of a good friend….

May be a person whose company is giving pleasure.

May be a person bounding with similar thoughts.

May be respect for each other.

May be a volunteer indulgence.

Moreover a person who tolerate your ill habits…….

Really interesting thing to think about friendship.

Some are for some reasons

some are for seasons,

may be some are for life( difficult thing) Peoples change for many of reasons so the friendship too. Status change friendship change…like many reasons

As the time passes “number of friends increased but friendship kept falling apart. Not actual nor factual but yes mostly are virtual friends. Ah… really interesting thing virtual friendship.

Never seen to each other but friendship is going on for reasons for seasons or for life! Interesting indeed. Again thoughts flooded in the mind. Is friendship demands anything?

Certainly “Yes”……It demands a selflessness, sacrifice moreover it demands time for each other in any conditions.

But Alas! Now days you can see almost these are impossible things. You give lots of technical excuses to escape yourself for not attending friends chores . And when we need, the same technical reply we have also to face.” What goes around comes around.”

Trend says Friendship is when we are in need. My opinion Friendship is not a need it is indeed when we co-operate each other in all pleasent or unpleasant days. In journey of life in any turning point if will get only a candid Friend, he will be equal to thousands.

तू मोहब्बत से कोई चाल तो चल

हार जाने का हौसला है मुझे

*हम-सफ़र चाहिए हुजूम नहीं*

*इक मुसाफ़िर भी क़ाफ़िला है मुझे* (अहमद फराज)

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